Maciej Kurzajewski and Paulina Smaszcz They don't have the best relationships. On May 14, the journalist and his ex -wife met in court. Leading “Halo here polsat” He accused her of violating his personal rights. He was accompanied by his current partner, Katarzyna Cichopek. In a short statement for the media, Kurzajewski revealed that he was satisfied with the course of the trial. “Of course, I am aware that this trial takes place behind closed doors and I respect it,” he said. And what really revealed the body of the whole three that appeared in court? We asked a qualified leadership and communication trainer about it, Edyta Kwiatkowska-Pllizg.
Paulina Smaszcz smiled in court. The expert mentioned the “mask”
Edyta Kwiatkowska-Plizg noticed that during a visit to court many people try to hide stress and emotions. However, this is not always possible. – In the courtroom, where the emotional rate is high, and each gesture takes place in public attention, body language gains a special importance. Participants of the hearing often reveal their emotional states non -verbally, involuntary signals in their attitude or facial expressions reveal tension, stress or relief, although at the same time they try to control gestures because of the official nature of the situation – she told us. What it looked like in the case of Kurzajewski, Cichopek and tearing? – In shared photographs from the court you can see both signs of suppressed emotions and consciously adopted attitudes to emphasize mastery. Each of these elements of non -verbal communication reflects the emotional dynamics of the moment, but remaining susceptible to interpretation depending on the context – the expert told us.
Edyta Kwiatkowska-Plizg drew attention to the behavior of Paulina Smaszcz, who talked in front of the courtroom on the phone and smiled radiantly. – You can see, for example, a free, straight attitude of one of the people who is accompanied by a smile during a telephone conversation in the court corridor. Such an open expression of the face and a certain step can suggest a sense of relief or satisfaction at a given moment, although it is worth remembering that a smile in a stressful situation is not always unambiguous, it is also a mask hiding tension – she said.
Maciej Kurzajewski could count on the support of Katarzyna Cichopek. “Physical closeness”
The expert did not escape the sensitive gesture of Kurzajewski, who put his hand on Katarzyna Cichopek's back. What did his behavior mean? – In a different shot we see two people standing close together, one of them puts a hand on the back of the other in a discreet gesture of support. Such physical closeness, especially accepted by the recipient of the gesture and reciprocated with a calm expression on the face, testifies to trust and an attempt to encourage each other in a tense situation. In the context of personal relationship, a delicate touch usually expresses empathy and solidarity, emphasizing unity towards in common Challenges – Edyta Kwiatkowska -Plizg told us.
Paulina Smaszcz with glasses. “They are an additional barrier”
Edyta Kwiatkowska-Pllizg also mentioned the accessories of a woman's firecracker and actresses. Paulina Smaszcz appeared in court in glasses, and Katarzyna Cichopek often improved her purse. According to the expert, this is no accident. – in other shots there are signs suppressed voltage And ways of dealing with emotions. Dark glasses are an additional barrier, separating the eyes, and at the same time the emotions of this person, from the eyes of the environment, thanks to which he can maintain more privacy in a difficult moment. In turn, another person reflexively improves the wardrobe part and holds his bag close to the body; Similar automatic activities (so -called adapters) often serve to unload internal tension and give a sense of control over the situation – she told us. Edyta Kwiatkowska-Plizg pointed out, however, that “interpretative caution” should be exercised in such situations.